“Wax on our Wounds” Amazing Night of Healing In Boston!

Last week I had the pleasure of sponsoring a “take care of you” event for the LIPSTICK  (Ladies Involved in Putting a Stop to Inner City killings): Women who have lost love ones to violence. My hope was that they might pause for a moment to pamper themselves.  I wanted them to remember as they continue to build their organization, what my mentor Marc always says which is “letting go is not giving up”.

“Letting go is surrendering any obsessive attachment to particular outcomes and situations.  Surrender means showing up every day for your life with the intention to be your best self, and to do the best you know how, without expecting life to go a certain way.  Have goals, have dreams, aspire, take purposeful action and build great relationships, but detach from what you think life must look like. The energy of someone aspiring to create something wonderful, teamed with this kind of surrender, is far more powerful and rewarding than someone determined to create outcomes with a desperate ‘must have’ mentality.  Surrender brings inner peace and joy, and lest we forget that our outer lives are a reflection of our inner state of being.”

I brought my camera and even though they had an amazing photographer on deck with whom I didn’t want to interfere… I couldn’t help myself when they started to write the name and tell the stories of their love ones taken away by violence on a memory wall. The emotion moved me and I wanted others to feel the mixture of pain and love that was so evident in these women honoring their lost souls…so I took a few shots and I will share them with you here now.

Thanks for taking the time to read this and understand that while Ferguson and New York are the focus of today, we must not forget the pain and love of our neighbors who have also lost their hearts to violence.

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7 responses to ““Wax on our Wounds” Amazing Night of Healing In Boston!

  1. Pingback: Operation L.I.P.S.T.I.C.K. | An amazing night of pain, resolve and coming together

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